Secrets,Achieving,Your,Goals,w DIY 5 Secrets to Achieving Your Goals with Passion
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Some faces scrunch up as if to say, "I wish you had not askedthat!" Others look contemplative, as if saying, "Oh, I am so gratefulyou reminded me of that question, now I can take some powerfulaction!" And then there are the few who answer with confidence, knowing exactly what they are meant to do by when and how.What is the question?"What are your goals for the next "Insert the period of time here."?Sometimes the exact phrase is changed. Some people who maylook at "Goals" in different ways. For them, the question might be,"What is your vision?" or "What is your intention?"Nonetheless, the root question is the same. "What do you want togrow towards? Where is the gap in your life you currently want tofill?"Until this question is answered, aimlessness is what governs yourlife.Forever etched in my mind was the first session with Ray. He toldme before we got started that he was trying this out much like hewould go to the parade to see the Emperor in his new clothes. Hewas not convinced there was anything to coaching, but since hewas curious, he wanted to work with me as he created his newestproduct.At the conclusion of the session, I always give fieldwork assignments,as the session itself is what I refer to as "Locker Room Talk". Thegame is played out on the field, and the Coach remains on the sidelines. Fieldwork is sort of like the Play book: it brings to lifeon the field what the Coach has taught in the locker room andduring practice. It integrates the lessons into the player's lives.One of the assignments included continued work to make hisvision crystal clear, to take the cobwebs away, to get inside themwith a microscope so nothing would get in the way of creating powerfully.Ray groaned, as if in pain. "Oh, you have hit one there. I knowhow goals work. I know writing it down works. I know howimportant this is. AND I have been ignoring it."Later that week, I received an email thanking me for pushing him. In the next six weeks he achieved more than he had achieved in inthe previous six months. And it all started with a discussion of goals followed by taking action on those goals. Step by step bystep.Below is an outline so you may achieve your goals passionately,just as Ray did.Goal Secret #1-Paint a PICTURE. Don't just write your goals inwords, craft your goals so you can see and experience the endresult. Paint a glorious, three dimensional multi sensory goal instead of a one dimensional, flat goal. When you can clearly seeand experience it, you can more easily create it. One way to makea picture is through creating a dream board. Simply cut out pictures from magazines that illustrate aspects of your goal andmake a collage. Hang the Dream Board where you can see itfrequently. Your picture will quickly and artfully come to reality.Secret #2-POSITIVE framing of your goal by crafting your goalusing a positive perspective rather than a negative perspective. Inyour goal, you will want to be growing towards something insteadof avoiding something. Using positive language attracts positivesituations and people into your life. Avoiding stuff brings morestuff to avoid. Secret #3- Have PASSION for your desired result. Lets face it, youwill have more interest in reaching your goals if they are somethingyou are passionate about. If you are living your life based upon someone else's dreams or someone else's passion, what do yousuppose will happen? Very little of significance-so choose passion!Secret #4-PRECISION in crafting your goal is critically important inachieving it. On the same point, it is also important to not be totally attached to achieving it exactly as you first created it. I refer to thisquality as "Passionate Detachment". This means your vision is crucially important to you, this particular project and its particular result are simply a piece of it, they are NOT the entire vision andthey are NOT you personified. With PRECISION, write your goalssuch as this: "My intention is to have X number of new accountsby Y date using the following tools 1, 2, and 3". If you just say"I want to have lots of accounts" well, thats interesting. Just doesn't mean anything, so it is unlikely you will get to where you want to be very quickly.Secret #5-POLISH your goal as you grow towards it. One of myfavorite examples of polishing goals is Oprah Winfrey, whose goawas to be a Network News Anchor. She never became one,obviously. She did, however, become an American icon, positivelyeffecting millions of people every weekday. She polished her goal, making modifications as her life changed. She loved herself andher vision enough to not be overly rigid. Cecil B. DeMille, American Film Producer and Director said, "Theperson who makes a success of living is the one who sees hisgoal steadily and aims for it unswervingly. That is dedication."Being dedicated to your vision and allowing yourself room to create it will bring you to higher heights than you could everimagine.Want to be the next Oprah (or whomever you admire)? Polish yourgoals with passionate precision. Picture yourself already therefrom a positive perspective. Live Passionately, today.
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