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Of course we shouldn’t feel this way. We are all entitled to, and need, time out from the stresses and strains of daily life, and in fact, skipping important ‘you’ time can have some very unpleasant consequences.For our own health, well-b...英国华人论坛

Suppose I was to tell you that the Police broke my door down the other day. They hauled me out of my bed and demanded to know if I was familiar with a man called Stephen Moon. I thought about it. Yes, that name sounded familiar. I thought ab...英国华人论坛

Guilt hits us all, but it REALLY hits the divorced-with-children segment. It's such a wasted emotion too, and we decided to address it so that your guilt doesn't run you right into a second divorce. Those statistics are already high enough....英国华人论坛

My daughters sometimes came home laughing and lighthearted after a weekend visit with their mom. I would listen to them cavorting, and while I was happy for them that they'd enjoyed their time with her, until after my therapy work, I used to...英国华人论坛

Parenting from guilt is a hazard that befalls manysingle parents. You know you're stuck if you have repetitive negativethoughts that forecast doom and gloom, like, "What have I done? Mychildren are never going to be able to get over this div...英国华人论坛

I enjoy watching good TV as much as the next guy. I decided to write my thoughts into this article today about a series I just started watching this year called "Chuck" which airs on NBC Mondays at 7:00 central. It just wrapped it's second s...英国华人论坛

Let’s look at Psalm 139:16, “Thine eyes have seen my unformed substance; And in Thy book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there was not one of them.” Basically, before you were born God marked out you...英国华人论坛

So you want the key to better living? It’s simple. All you need is more time to do things you really want to do. The question is how to get that. Read on and you’ll learn the secrets and shortcuts right now.As far as food goes, you don’t...英国华人论坛

Shortcuts are about streamlining and simplifying your life. Consider eliminating a phone line. That’s right; in this age of technology do you really need a cell phone, a home phone, and a work phone? Okay so you can’t eliminate work, but w...英国华人论坛

Guilt is a common feeling in the landscape of care giving. Guilt can propel you to be the best you can be …or it can immobilize you. For caregivers, painful feelings -- such as guilt, sadness and anger -- are like any other pain. It’s your...英国华人论坛

How are your children doing? If they are doing well, then I'm sure you feel good about your parenting. If they are not doing well, what are you telling yourself about your parenting?"I should have been there for them more.""I should have bee...英国华人论坛

My mother was a worrier. She would worry if my brother wasn’t home by curfew (shame on him). I would hear all about what could have happened, “he could have been in an accident, he could be hurt, he could have a flat tire”, and on and on....英国华人论坛

Survivor Guilt is a very insidious thing.It plays like the background music to your life, always a low hum droning on.After having an abortion many women go through the thought process of survivor guilt.It goes something like this:"Because I...英国华人论坛

Guilt always deserves some sort of emotional punishment. Usually self-inflicted.Women are particularly good at guilt. Having an abortion goes against our biological need to procreate. One of our expected roles in life is to mother and nurtur...英国华人论坛

If anxiety and anger can easily lead us to procrastinate, the same thing can also be said about guilt—an unenjoyable emotion that shares many features with anxiety.  Let’s explore together how guilt can lead us to put off till tomorrow wh...英国华人论坛

Circumstances may time and again move us to act in ways contrary to how we see ourselves. Maybe it happens unexpectedly without our intention. Or perhaps doing so was convenient at the time. But when our actions are inconsistent with our bel...英国华人论坛

"Tell me what company thou keepst, and I'll tell thee what thou art." - Miguel de Cervantes (1547 - 1616) Spanish novelist.Growing up I often heard my best friend's father Nick say something that I would later realize was a key to success. H...英国华人论坛

Guilt is an important feeling. It is the appropriate feeling to have when we have deliberately done something hurtful or harmful to others. People who can harm others without any feelings of guilt or remorse were formerly called sociopaths o...英国华人论坛

Guilt is the feeling that results when you tell yourself that you have done something wrong. Healthy Guilt Healthy guilt is the feeling that occurs when you have actually done something wrong - such as deliberately harming someone. This is...英国华人论坛

Stress and guilt seem to go hand-in-hand. As a working parent, there seems to be plenty of both to go around! Below are a couple of quick tips that can greatly reduce feelings of stress and guilt creating greater life harmony. 1. Consciously...英国华人论坛

Stress and guilt seem to go hand-in-hand. As a working parent, there seems to be plenty of both to go around! Below are a couple of quick tips that can greatly reduce feelings of stress and guilt creating greater life harmony. 1. Consciously...英国华人论坛