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What would you do if an educator did this to your child at school?Called her names like Lazy, Stupid, Idiot, Clumsy, or other unwanted namesScared him by threatening big consequences the next time he made a mistakeShared her private secrets with othersTaunted him by calling attention to what he didnt do wellIntimidated her with mean looks, public humiliation, or negative gesturesManipulated him to accomplish certain tasks by comparing him to his siblings or other kidsIs any of this OK with you? Would you call the school? Make an appointment with the principal? Contact the press or get a lawyer? Its bullying, you know. Its actually emotional abuse. There is unwanted behavior, unequal power, and one- sided action. Kids look up to adults, and when an adult betrays a childs trust, damage occurs. Its like stealing the childs soul.There are better ways to guide kids than bullying them to do their homework, pay attention, or attend to their responsibilities. It all starts with respect. So let me tilt this post a little differently.What does it mean if you, the parent, did this to your child at home?Called her names like Lazy, Stupid, Idiot, Clumsy, or other unwanted namesScared him by threatening big consequences the next time he made a mistakeShared her private secrets with othersTaunted him by calling attention to what he didnt do wellIntimidated her with mean looks, public humiliation, or negative gestures.Manipulated him to accomplish certain tasks by comparing him to his siblings or other kids.Does the title of parent change anything? If you were appalled by the thought of a teacher doing any of this to your child, nothing changes for the child just because youre related. Its still bullying. Its one-sided, unwanted behavior with an imbalance of power. It hurts, and it steals the soul. Its all about respect. And respect begins at home.WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR NEWSLETTER OR WEB SITE?You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it: Friendship experts Jane Balvanz and Blair Wagner publish GAPRAs bi-weekly articles. If youre ready to guide children in grades K 12 through painful friendships, get your free mini-audio workshop and ongoing tips at:For School and Youth Organizations: http://www.gapraconnect.com/For Parents: http://www.awaythrough.com/
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