Should,Divorce,Husband,Stay,fo family Should I Divorce My Husband or Stay for the Kids? (Video)
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This scenario is much more common than you may believe A couple has been married for 5 years or more, they have 2.5 kids, and live in a suburban wonderland.All of a sudden, they realize theyre not "a couple" anymore, just roommates. The spark has vanished without a trace. Gone are the days or love, romance, excitement, happiness. Its just dreary, boring, playing house with a roommate you can no longer stand.Remember those days you couldnt let each other go to sleep at night, and couldnt wait to wake up and be together? Yeah, theyre gone. You dont know why, but theyre long gone.And suddenly, you meet someone new, fun, and exciting. Maybe even an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend from college. And suddenly you feel alive again, like youve been woken from a bad dream.With one minor detail of course your spouse and the 2.5 kids.So what do you do? Stay with your spouse and continue the unhappy marriage, seek counseling, or divorce? You decide. Be sure to read the question, then watch the video and leave your thoughts below. Heres the full story Dear Dan and Jennifer,Hi, Ive been married to my husband for 5 years and with him for a total of 9 years. We have three kids together. For a long time now we have not gotten along, there have been fights, some physical, he was arrested for trying to push me out of a car, there is emotional abuse, and I am just not happy. I told him I want a divorce.Well, we are in financial ruin with debt a lot of debt and cannot afford a separate residence - which is a criterion for divorce in our state. You must live in separate places for a year.In addition the financial aspect of it scares me, but I honestly dont think Im in love with him anymore, and I am quite certain that if we didnt have children together I would leave and probably wouldnt have married him in the first place. He is on the other hand a wonderful dad, and we have a great "community image" with lots of friends, etc. and hes a teacher.To complicate things I began speaking to a male friend of mine from college again and it began as friends, and has escalated into an affair. He lives 600 miles away but has come up to visit me and I am planning on visiting him as well. He is divorced and has a son and on the bad side he is a drunk.But, when I speak to him, I am just completely and totally in love. I have known him for about 13 years and we were even roommates at one time, but involved with other people.I just feel like for the first time in my life I have found true love and happiness, except for the fact that I am married to someone else. I dont know what to do, I feel that by staying in my current marriage (I have told my husband of my feelings for this other person, but he still wants to try to make things work) it is unfair to me, and to my husband who should have someone who is in love with him.I also think of my children and that I may possibly screw up their lives with my own selfishness .any advice is greatly appreciated. - TanyaWatch this short video for the answer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOHDQIaA1pg
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