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What is love? A ticklish sensation around the heart that can't bescratched? Something I earn when I do things right? Something Igive to get something back? My definition is that love is awillingness to choose to see and respond to the best in anotherperson, even when they are not experiencing or expressing itthemselves at the moment. This gives you the opportunity to beloving, no matter what the other is doing! It also requires thatyou decide to give up petty (and not-so-petty) judgments ofothers and replace that with the willingness to see them in theirbest light. Quite a tall order!Now, how do you recognize love in your life? Do you have awell-defined way of recognizing love coming to you? Is it "it hasto look, sound, feel like this or it isn't love"? Or, are youopen to seeing, hearing and feeling love in many forms? You canmiss a lot of love in your life if you have a narrow, restrictingperception of which form is acceptable to you.How do you express love in your life? Familiar quotes worthy ofbringing into application are "Work is love made visible.""Works, not words, are proof of love." and "Service is nothingmore than love in work clothes." Consider your expressions oflove. Do your words match your actions? Do you say you'll dosomething for another but "forget" regularly? Are you willing tomatch your walk with your talk? It seems to me to be a waste ofenergy to spend much valuable time talking about what I'm goingto do, or what I think I should do, when I could be using thattime for doing it!Love also looks a lot like time. When we say we love someone, or,for that matter, that we love to do something, the proof is oftenin the time we spend with the person or the time we spend doingthe activity, isn't it? When I was seeing many couples in mycounselling practice, I would often hear the pain as one partnerexpressed their loneliness, saying, "You do not spend time withme." The demonstration of love means spending time with those yousay you love, doesn't it? We've all seen or heard stories aboutparents who were too busy and missed their children's childhoods.Regretting it later is not nearly as effective as doing it now!Remember, too, that you cannot give a gift you do not have. Beloving to yourself. Spend time with yourself. Know what you enjoyand do it! It is also important to have good communication skillsso that you can communicate to others clearly when you think theyare being unloving to you. I think it is unloving to allow othersto be unloving to you. We are responsible for teaching people howto treat us! If you do not say anything, you are telling them itis all right with you.IMPORTANT: If love makes the world go round, we'd better do ourbit because the world is turning at 2,000 miles per hour, andwe'd get quite a jolt if it stopped.
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