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If you haven't reached your goals yet--for this year or for yourlife--it could be because you are zoning out, living in your comfortzone.  I'mthe first to admit that I thought my comfort zone was very good to me for muchof my life.  But truth be told, I didn'thave much of a life!  Ironic, eh?  It was when Idecided to step--no, jumpout of my comfort zone that the most extraordinary things began tohappen.  I met the man of my dreams, got married, left an unsatisfying joband started my own business.  I have been living happily and fulfilled inmy life for a little over two years now and I wouldn't go back!  Oh suremy comfort zone shows up every now and again, more than I would like, but it'sall good because it shows me that it's time to stretch myself to the nextlevel.Doesthe following description sound like you?  You live your life in fear:fear of looking like a fool, fear of appearing stupid, fear of what otherpeople might say, or fear of not knowing what or how to do something. That's how my life looked.  I never set foot outside my comfort zone andtherefore missed so manywonderful experiences and opportunities.  Itis now my quest to help others break free of their comfort zone so that theycan have their best life ever. My clients take great strides forward.  Sure, sure, initially they arehesitant but they called me in to help them...and help them I do, and for themost part painlessly too.  Look, change isn't easy but it is very muchworth it.  You can either stay in your comfort zoneor stretch out of it for the most unbelievably satisfying life!Hereis a step-by-stepexercise to move you out of your comfort zone. Grab a piece ofpaper and write down the answers to these questions (I even provided someexamples to help get you started).  Oh, not to worry, these can be babysteps.  If you want to run, you first need to feel good aboutwalking.  These will do that!  What is one thing that you really want to try but are afraid? I want to try a new exercise class. What makes you scared and/or nervous about it?  I'm scared that I won't know what to do and will feel stupid. Why do you feel this way?  I feel nervous because I've tried other exercise classes before and I didn't know what to do and felt awkward.  I don't like to be the new person.  I don't want to be the one who doesn't know everything. Why do you want to do this one thing; what are the results you are looking for?  I know I need to find an exercise I enjoy doing, and will look forward to, so that I can manage my weight. How will you feel once you do this one thing?  Elated, excited, proud and energized. What are things you can do (no matter how small) to help you step outside your comfort zone so that you can experience those feelings?  Find exercise classes in my area that I am interested in.  Go and meet the instructors.  Ask if I can observe a class or try it as a guest.  What timeline are you willing to assign to each of those steps in order to reach your goal?  I will research exercise classes tomorrow, meet two instructors over the weekend, and observe or try out one class by this time next week. How do you feel now, knowing you have a plan?  I feel relieved and encouraged because now it doesn't seem so scary. Who will you share this information with that will hold you accountable to your schedule?  One of my best friends who loves to exercise but lives too far away for us to be exercise-buddies would be excited for me to do this. Or my husband because he can help me with chores and errands to allow me the time to make this happen. What's stopping you now?  Nothing!Being afraid to try something new certainly shows up in manyareas of our lives, not just exercise. I used this example ofan exercise class because I am a fitness instructor and coach, and I comeacross this scenario all the time.  Let me say that good instructorswelcome "newbies" to the class.  And if they know you're new,they'll usually give extra instruction so that you can follow along. There's noreason to be intimidated!Stayingin our comfort zone does not do us any good mentally or physically.  We need to stretch our mind and bodyin order to stay alert, active and healthy.  As you mayhave figured out, a lot of what keeps us in our comfort zone is in our heads.Thisweek, take one action step toward reaching one of your goals that you have beenafraid to try or to go after.  When you do, write and let me know how itturned out for you.  I'd love to hear about how you felt before you tookthe step that started you moving out of your comfort zone...and then how youfelt after!