Getting,and,Keeping,the,Woman, DIY Getting and Keeping the Woman You Desire - Ten Do's and Don'
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Sometimes men meet women theyre attracted to but dont have the right tools to engage them, resulting in a lost connection. As an author and dating coach to hundreds of men and women throughout the years Ive discovered the 10 following ways of behaving and relating that will ensure a mans ability to captivate and keep a womans interest.DONTSDont push sex so muchMost women find men who talk about sex when theyre first starting to date obnoxious. If you keep trying to talk about sex, you just end up looking desperate and sexually hungry. Like you never get any. Women like men who can hold back a little who can take it or leave it. Pushing sex too much can also make a man look like he has a one-track mind and is not interested in having a relationship with her which will make most women run for the hills.Dont turn her into your shrinkDont overwhelm a women with too may of your problems when youre first getting to know her. Dont discuss your dysfunctional family, money problems or a bad divorce. Women might immediately categorize you as a loser and exceptionally needy. If youre struggling with so many problems, consider seeing a therapist instead and keep your dates just for socializing.Dont stare at her body inappropriatelyMost women find a man who is staring at her breasts or some other part of her body when they are speaking offensive. She usually feels objectified and even violated. It also gives women the impression that the man is not really interested in her as a person. In addition it usually makes the man look immature, not smooth, socially inept and desperate for sex.Dont act desperateEven if youre crazy about a woman try to sit on your feelings and act cool. Dont chase so much. Nothing turns off a woman more than a man who calls her incessantly. Remember the scene from Swingers where Jon Favreau keeps calling the girl from the bar over and over and she tells him never to call her again? Women warn each other about men who give them the big rush job in the beginning only to disappear later on. So youre better off calling her to show your interested but in a timely appropriate manner so you appear stable and sincere.Dont be cheapEven in post-feminist times, nothing turns a woman off more than men who wont shell out money for the first few dates. Men who dont like to pay look withholding and anal. If you have frugal tendencies contain them at least until youre in a long-term relationship. Then maybe shell appreciate it more.DOSBe a little edgyEdgy is almost an art form. Its walking a fine line between being available, and holding back a little. Its having a masculine powerful presence while also appearing vulnerable -like Jack Bauer in 24. If this is too difficult then at least wear a leather jacket and try to act as if. Tone down the sarcasmMany women experience sarcasm as hostile. Making fun of a woman youre highly interested in even if its said in a clever way is not the way to go. You dont want to come across as the jerky sixth grade boy who wants to dip her pigtails in ink. Sit on your urge to make sarcastic comments, which actually may be a symptom of your anxiety. Funny is good as long as shes not the target of the joke.Be a good listenerNothing turns a woman off more then a man whos just waiting for her to finish speaking so its his turn to talk. Even if it takes a lot of self discipline focus on what shes actually saying. Then give her some reflective feedback to let her know youre actively listening. The most successful salesmen and politicians are great listeners. Thats how they learn what a person needs so they can make a great sale or get a vote.Have great eye contactTry to gaze into her eyes when you speak. Theres nothing more seductive than a guy who not only looks at a woman while he or she is speaking, but holds the gaze a couple of seconds longer than necessary. Its very sexy.Try to look coolEven if clothes arent your thing try to buy shoes, suits and clothing that sexy guys wear. Even if you only have one seductive going-out outfit. The myth that women are only into how much money you earn and the car you drive is simply not true. Women are very much into if a guy is hot looking just like men are. And always always have clean fingernails!
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