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To feel the love of others, you must first be able to feel love of self. If you are unable to feel love for yourself, from yourself, how can you possibly know what it feels like to be loved by others? How do you accept that love and trust, if youve never learned to love yourself? It sounds easy to be able to love yourself, but it can be the most difficult, and challenging task, set before us. It is so easy to believe those negative statements we give ourselves. We especially devour the negative things people say about us. Can you even count the times youve called yourself stupid for making a small mistake, or just being human? How many times have you felt like a loser or not good enough, because of minor errors or lapses, that we would easily overlook in another person, but obsess and make into a huge problem for ourselves? It isnt fair but we do it.We can make great strides in our life and accomplish great things; yet, it isnt the good things we do, that we remember and savor; its the mistakes or loss opportunities that we dwell or even obsess on. Instead of building up our self-esteem and self-images we constantly tear ourselves down. Why must we intensely focus on an extra fat roll, or some imagined imperfection? What is this endless pursuit for perfection that we are striving for? It isnt there. It doesnt happen. God did not make us perfect and never expected that out of us. If we were actually perfect, we could be God. Guess What? He isnt looking for a replacement. When he does hell take out an ad. Until then dont worry about it.How then, do we begin to accept and love ourselves? First, we take stock. Not of what is wrong with us. What we didnt do, or we should have done, but what we did do. We use compassion and look at all our positive traits and accomplishments. The key word here is compassion. To honestly value ourselves as human beings; not be drawn into the negative thoughts and tapes that run through our minds from the past. Its amazing how many positive things you come up with if you can be honest and compassionate with yourself. It isnt putting a good face on things. If its just for one time in your life to not judge yourself harshly but be honest and good to yourself. If you have to start with just one good thing then start with that and add to it day by day. You will find that the list is actually a long one because face it youre a good person. Yes, you have made some mistakes you have some shortcomings relax, your human; you can work on them. One by one not just become so overwhelmed that you just give up. Its ok to be human, and make mistakes. Mistakes are just lifes way of helping us to learn. Not, a weapon to beat ourselves up with. Next time you look in to the mirror; try it. Think of something good about yourself, then think of something youve accomplished; keep doing that until you realize what a valuable and lovable person you are. What if you can only think of one thing a day? Take it one day at a time but keep doing it. What do you have to lose? You have so much to gain.Kay L. Schlagel
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