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Responsibilityis one of the biggest issues that we interact with everyday in the world aroundus.  Whether that is concerning theinteraction that we have with another person or the way we take on thingsinside ourselves in our own individual experiences.  We are faced with the contemplation ofwhether to take full responsibility for our own actions or experiences withinall that we do, a choice that is determined by how we deal individually withsituations.  This at times leads topinpointing real issues that we have inside ourselves and the nature of how wecan cope with everyday experiences. Noteveryone can deal with certain circumstances that they come across in life.  Sometimes things can seem too big a task totake on that it is a slow process in order to get enthusiasm, not wanting togive full responsibility to the task at hand. This then can at times lead to conflicts and issues between other peoplewhen someone does not take on the full responsibility for their own originalchoices made, especially if they make plans that effects other people involved.  It might be because some responsibilitiesthat we take on have not our interest, or desire, and lead us to not finish orrather poorly resolve things we decide to at one time participate in. What is thebasis of this poor judgment on our own part that leads us to make decisionsthat we cannot fulfill or take full responsibility for? A good way to see this is in a visual way, by detailing and experience ofa person who would come across the same issues. For example, Daniel who has made a decision to help a friend even thoughhe does not know if he has the means in which to deliver his word.  His friend is Peter and when he was at theparty talking with him last night, he asked him for help on Sunday at his housewith some moving of his furniture.  Whatthey both do not realize is that already a responsibility has been taken on by bothof them in arranging the situation in the first place.  Sunday comes and Daniel is late and Petercalls him up to ask if everything is ok. Daniel responds by telling him that he forgot and that he had other plansfor the day.   Well thisis an obvious and direct representation of responsibility, outwardly seen.  Daniel did not keep to his word so then inturn not taking responsibility for what he arranged to do for his friend.   If youthink that Peter does not also have a part to play in all of this you arewrong.  Peter also has responsibilities ofhis own.  He knew himself earlier that hecould arrange to have someone come and move the furniture for him.  However now his is stuck with no help at all,because of his need to save money, he has to take responsibility now on his ownshoulders.  Instead he asked his friendDaniel so he would not have to pay for the costs.  Now that he has to rely on his friend it hasleft him also in a powerless situation, that he himself does not takeresponsibility for in his own choosing. Peter is angry at his friend now for not being there for him.  Should he be angry with himself for nottaking his own responsibility for the task he had to get done himself, relyingon others to do it for him?  If he wantsto take the risk to ask someone else for help then his own real answer is towait patiently to help arrives and not rely on it to bring eventualreward.   This iswhere the underlying issue of responsibility takes full circle.  We all have responsibilities for all the thingswe do in our lives, no matter what they are, whether they be a word, or anaction, or a choice, we take on the full spectrum of the result to all that we participatein.  As soon as we give awayresponsibility to another and rely on them for what we can ourselves achieve,we give away our own control of how we deal with the issue at hand.  Then we get angry at the people who do notfulfill our goals to what we desire, when in real truth we should also be viewingourselves and why we need to ask for help in the first place. What is notacknowledged is that every single person in life, no matter what they do, havetheir own unique responsibility to hold within themselves.  That responsibility is for their own choices,actions, and wellbeing for all that they do in life.  No matter what type of responsibilities theyare.  No other person out there hasresponsibility on what we ourselves as individuals achieve or fulfill in ourlives and in ourselves.  We are the maincontributor to our lives and the only one who truly knows what we need and whatwe need to fulfill. If webecome angry with another, often it can come from our own problems of not beingable to handle the situation ourselves and the responsibility we have when itcomes to the issue.  This anger is not thenso much towards the other person, it can be a way of expressing the fact thatwe as individuals do not always know how to deal with certain situationsourselves.  The responsibility gets sobig that we have to rely on others to get us through.  It is not until we fall deep into a puddle ofpressure that we realize that the only way we will actually achieve what wewant for ourselves is when we take full responsibility for all that we wish toachieve, no matter the obstacles or challenges that come our way.  If we have to ask for help in this process,if we are taking full responsibility in ourselves, then we will wait it outuntil the very end without criticism, allowing others their own choices in theprocess. There is nouse sitting idly jealous and angry at others for achieving things that we canalso achieve in ourselves.  We can everyone of use stand up to the challenge.  Ifwe continue to ask for help, never taking the responsibility ourselves for ourown choices and actions, and continue to be angry at others for not fulfillingour wishes, it might well end up that we are left alone to wallow in our ownstate of feeling sorry for ourselves.  Itis at this point then, when there is no one left to be there for us, afterpushing all away, that we have to stand up on our own two feet and make achoice to take responsibility for our own lives and all that we do.  We then realize that most people haveproblems already to deal with through what they have to achieve themselves thento have to hold up everyone else along the way. Eventually it becomes to heavy a burden also for them to handle and sothey eventually have to let go so they do not fall themselves.   It can attimes be hard to face things that might seem like a struggle.  We look to others and feel a certain jealousywhen we see that they are doing well in their lives, and we presume that theyhave life so easy and simple.  What isreally showing is a person that has taken responsibility into themselves fortheir own life, choosing not to ask always for help from others but instead topush through it in themselves.  Outwardlythey might look as if they have the world in their hands, but the process to gothrough the experience has been the same, only that they took the responsibilityon for themselves without falling onto others to do it for them. We canforever search outside of ourselves for answers and help, but all the help isalready within.  When we takeresponsibility for our own lives and actions then, only then, will we fulfillall that we dream and hope to achieve. Responsibilityis what makes us who we are, it is our life, and by grasping it in our ownhands, we hold our life strong and create all that is possible.  We are then declaring that we are in chargeof our own world and all that we do and receive from our journey is a rewardfor ourselves.  It is our own life; it isour responsibility to take control of it.