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When starting a new work at home business it is very easy to become consumed by it. We spend so much time trying to get the business up and running that we may end up becoming burned out and lose our motivation. There is so much to learn and Normal 0 false false false MicrosoftInternetExplorer4 /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable{mso-style-name:"Table Normal";mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0;mso-tstyle-colband-size:0;mso-style-noshow:yes;mso-style-parent:"";mso-padding-alt:0in
I have written before about the concept of Threshold, of reaching a boiling point in your life, of hitting rock bottom and realizing you need to change. But after that, then what? Where do you go from there? Many people have reached that point and they say, "I'm going to make a change, I'm going to turn over a new leaf." But, you know, they go to bed, they get up the next day, and life goes on and nothing really changes. Well, that's a good point. Where do you go from there?Focus on what you want, not on what you don't wantI think many times we focus on the bad habit or behavior that we want to change and that's where our mind is, that's where our attention is, that's where the vision is, the pictures that we have in our mind. Now I'll go back to the example of the person who overeats. You know they say, "I've got to change, I've got to go on a diet, I've got to quit eating the food." They put all of their focus on not eating and they are constantly thinking about food, saying things to themselves like; "I can't eat the chips and salsa. I can't eat the chocolate cake in the fridge. I've got to count calories." Their whole focus is all on food, and not eating the food.Dominant thoughtsThe problem is, the picture that you have in your mind when you're in this mode is of food and your mind draws toward what you have pictures of in your head. Let me rephrase that, not your mind, but whatever pictures you have in your mind; that's what you're drawn towards. The person who wants to quit swearing for example, if he's just constantly telling himself, "I'm not going to swear, I'm not going to swear." The thoughts in his mind are all about swearing.The focus can't be on what it is your trying to stop. It's got to be on the behavior you're going to replace it with. So for the person who wants to change the way they look, their physical appearance, their health, they shouldn't be focusing on not eating food. They should be focusing on what they're going to look like in six months or a year down the road-what kind of lifestyle are they going to have? It's got to be a lifestyle change."See" what you wantThey can't say, "I'm going to stop eating food for the next ten days" or "I'm going to stop eating until I'm down to a certain weight and then resume my regular lifestyle." That's not going to work. You've got to see in your mind who you're going to become. And then once you decide what kind of life you're going to lead, are you going to be a biker, a runner, are you going to get up and do aerobics, kick boxing, whatever it is, you need to see pictures of yourself in good health, pictures of yourself in your mind having the body, the physique that you want, looking the way you want and then move towards that picture.Suddenly you start to make changes in your life because your current behavior is incompatible with the way you see yourself. You need to start looking, acting, walking, and talking like that person.Now that is focusing on a small part of your entire self, your physical body. You can bring this up to even a higher level and see yourself as a completely different person, a person you have described and envisioned in every detail, the real "you" deep inside of you. You begin to change every aspect of your life. It all begins with what you are focusing your mind on on a regular basis. So be aware of your thoughts, be aware of the images and pictures you have in your mind because whatever your dominant thought is, that is what you will create in your life.
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