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When you feel self-conscious it means you are putting too muchattention on your self, too much focus on what you are doing andhow you are doing it. And this is a formula for poor performance.The secret then to dealing with this problem is to become otherconscious.If all you do is shift your focus from self to others you willcommunicate better, perform better and become a far betterlistener.Another positive consequence is that other people will enjoyspending time with you because it is so obvious you give themyour complete attention.Your goal is to become so fascinated by other people that yourfocus is on what they say, how they say it and why they say it.6 Tips for Becoming Other Conscious:1 Pay attention to the way people breathe, watch closely andobserve the relationship between breathing and speaking.2 Listen not just to what people say but the way they say it. Payvery close attention to speech patterns, changes in tempo,volume and tone.3 Ask thoughtful questions to understand the way others think.Really strive to grasp why others think what they think.4 Whenever your focus shifts back to the way you are behaving askyourself questions about the other person so you need to payattention to him e.g.- What does he really mean by that?- How does he manage to be so boring?- How does she keep people so entranced with her words?5 Use your imagination to change your mood and to keep your mindtoo occupied to be self-conscious.You could for example imagine that the people you are talking toare wearing no clothes or inappropriate clothes. Why not havesome fun, feel good and still enjoy a good conversation?You owe it to yourself to find as many ways as possible to feelgood. As I have said before excellent communication skills aremore dependant on your mental and emotional states than on cleverlanguage patterns.6 Use affirmations to condition a new belief about your abilityto be relaxed and other conscious. For example:- I am fascinated by the way people talk- I give my complete attention to whoever I talk to- I am an excellent conversationalist- I feel fantastic when I meet new people
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