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Many would-be entrepreneurs never get ahead with their bizplans or ideas because of the big Fear Factor! They'd reallylike to make some project click, but too many negativethoughts and ideas hold them back. They worry about failure,legal problems, family opposition, rejection and a myriad ofother possibilities. Here we will outline 3 things you cando now to destroy fear and move on confidently towardsuccess!1) Take Action! Action actually cures fear. Once you get in the middle of aproject, you mind will start looking for ways to make yourplan work. Inaction, or doing nothing is fear's workshop.Not doing anything will destroy your confidence and thosenegative thoughts will dominate.If a net biz is in your plans, take time to learn some newthings. You don't have to be an expert on tech issues(experts are a dime a dozen and you can hire as many as youneed), but it does help to know something about it. A littleunderstanding on your part can relieve a LOT of stress anddoubt. Take time to do your homework.2) Focus On The Positives!We live in a negative world, so don't beat yourself up toobad if you have fallen into the grove of doubtful thinking.The good news is that you can get out of that rut! When itcomes to your biz plan, focus on the reasons why it can workinstead of why it won't. Whatever you focus on, that is whatyou will come up with. It's funny how the mind works. Since our business is teaching folks how to earn onlineincome, we did an exercise where we asked individuals if itwould be possible to take a homeless person from the streetand teach them how to make money online. The results of ourresearch are interesting! The ones who were less successful said that it would not bepossible, that the person would not even have a PC to workwith, or an address to mail his checks to. They could thinkof every negative reason in the world why our experimentwith a homeless person would not work.On the other hand, the more successful folks (who haveearned income online) started to tell us all the reasons whyit could work. We could take the street person to thelibrary and teach them how to get online. They could set upa Pay Pal account and have commissions deposited there. Wecould help them set up a P.O. Box to get mail. These were some of the same ideas that the less successfulfolks came up with when we asked them "Well just imagine fora moment that it could be done, how would you do it?" Thenpositive answers came!So get your mind reasoning on all the ways something willwork, and it will come up with many ideas for you. If youfocus on the negatives, it will paint a picture for you fullof reasons why your plan or biz won't work! Try it yourself.Have some fun with it. Then focus on the positives for therest of your life!3) Praise Others!It is easy to tell everyone what they are doing wrong. Seemslike that is what most folks concentrate on these days. Weare all imperfect, and you would never run out of material.However, try to encourage others by expressing thanks forwhat they do right. It will go a long way toward forminglasting relationships with people. When something does not go right, don't be so quick tocomplain. Here is an actual email we received from someone.Keep in mind that this is the first time we had heard fromthis person. What would be your thoughts on them as anindividual?"tried to call at 7:30 CST, which is the same as 7:30 MDTisn't it? Any way the line was dead. tried3 times past 7:30 before and past MDT. Dead. carelessnessirresponsibiltiy is teh name of thegame. Screw somew over some how. hello arrogance"(Misspellings and grammar mistakes as received)Turns out that this person tried to call in on one of ourconference calls, but mistakenly thought that Mountain Timewas the same as Central time. No biggie, an easy mistake tomake. However, do you see how this accusatory and negativeemail was going to benefit anyone? Would it make you want todo business with them? We received several other emails fromthem - all were negative. It's easy to see that this is amiserable person who has a habit of tearing down others.Don't let yourself fall into that pattern! Once you're stuckin it, things can really get bad and ugly. Focus on praisefor things done right and you will win friends and influencefolks to do even more for you!Many times the negative person as mentioned above willcomplain because they don't understand something. Again,take some time to learn. Once you learn new things, you lifewill become even more exciting for you. You won't getstagnant and defensive with every little thing that goeswrong. In fact, fewer things will go wrong for you becauseyou have done your homework. You will still have to dealwith inactive negative people, the world is FULL of suchones - But you won't be one of them!So there you have it, the big 3 confidence and biz builders- take action, stay positive, and praise others. Why notstart today?
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