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When starting a new work at home business it is very easy to become consumed by it. We spend so much time trying to get the business up and running that we may end up becoming burned out and lose our motivation. There is so much to learn and Normal 0 false false false MicrosoftInternetExplorer4 /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable{mso-style-name:"Table Normal";mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0;mso-tstyle-colband-size:0;mso-style-noshow:yes;mso-style-parent:"";mso-padding-alt:0in
1. Don't avoid expressing your negative or critical feelings. They are not bad or improper, they are just your feelings and you are entitled to them. 2. Feelings aren't facts. They are just feelings. 3. Use "I" Language to indicate that the feelings you are expressing are yours. You are not accusing or judging anyone. 4. You don't have to justify your feelings, you only need to state them. 5. Assertive behaviour discloses your wants, needs ,preferences and opinions. Aggressive behaviour discounts, ignores and over-rides the wants, needs, preferences and opinions of others. 6. Assertive behaviour supports your own dignity, while aggressive behaviour demeans the dignity of others. 7. Toxic people usually put others down when relating to them , with a look of distain, a sarcastic remark or direct verbal bullying. 8. You must have the courage to be assertive. This is a excerpt from Mike Moore's manual DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE For more information send a blank email to [email protected] WE RECEIVE THE KIND OF TREATMENT WE TOLERATE. Subscribe to Mike's FREE newsletter LIFELINE at www.motivationalplus.com
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